I'm just wondering where everyone is hiding...there are so many blogs and forum topics started but barely any actual posts. They've been read and read but no replies. I'm also curious to know if anyone else is feeling completely confused about our bi side. I am. I am very attracted to women and I also adore men. Top that off with the fact that my husband doesn't really now about me likeing girls. I think he'd be fine with it; I'm the one with the issues. Would it mess up my marriage if I physically acted on it? I'm struggling with the Christian aspect of it as well. Is it a sin? I hate these feelings! Does anyone else have troubles like mine? I need some advise or thoughts. I feel like I'm a bad person here somehow and I know I'm not. Thanks for letting me vent and worry.
I'm just wondering where everyone is hiding...there are so many blogs and forum topics started but barely any actual posts. They've been read and read but no replies. I'm also curious to know if anyone else is feeling completely confused about our bi side. I am. I am very attracted to women and I also adore men. Top that off with the fact that my husband doesn't really now about me likeing girls. I think he'd be fine with it; I'm the one with the issues. Would it mess up my marriage if I physically acted on it? I'm struggling with the Christian aspect of it as well. Is it a sin? I hate these feelings! Does anyone else have troubles like mine? I need some advise or thoughts. I feel like I'm a bad person here somehow and I know I'm not. Thanks for letting me vent and worry.
I FEEL THE SAME WAY YOU DO BUT I DID TELL MY HUSBAND AFTER 23 YRS OF MARRIAGE AND HE HAS ACCEPTED IT(AFTER 3 MOS. OF MALE EGO GETTING IN THE WAY) I'VE BEEN STRUGGLING WITH THIS MY WHOLE LIFE AND KEPT IT HIDDEN FROM EVERYONE I LOVED. I'M 46 AND HAVE THOUGHT THESE THOUGHTS SINCE THE AGE OF 16. SOMETIMES I FEEL SICK AND TWISTED KNOWING THAT I WOULD LET MY THOUGHTS GO IN THAT DIRECTION BECAUSE OF THE WAY I WAS RAISED(CHRISTIAN). I'M CONFUSED AND NOT SURE OF MYSELF AND SCARED TO DEATH THAT MY FANTASY COULD COME TRUE
I FEEL THE SAME WAY YOU DO BUT I DID TELL MY HUSBAND AFTER 23 YRS OF MARRIAGE AND HE HAS ACCEPTED IT(AFTER 3 MOS. OF MALE EGO GETTING IN THE WAY) I'VE BEEN STRUGGLING WITH THIS MY WHOLE LIFE AND KEPT IT HIDDEN FROM EVERYONE I LOVED. I'M 46 AND HAVE THOUGHT THESE THOUGHTS SINCE THE AGE OF 16. SOMETIMES I FEEL SICK AND TWISTED KNOWING THAT I WOULD LET MY THOUGHTS GO IN THAT DIRECTION BECAUSE OF THE WAY I WAS RAISED(CHRISTIAN). I'M CONFUSED AND NOT SURE OF MYSELF AND SCARED TO DEATH THAT MY FANTASY COULD COME TRUE
hey thanks for your input. i just read your reply and i am in a similar boat with my current love. we just decided that having a threesome would be fun and have talked about it for a while. it is nice to know that there are couples out there like us. :-)
hey thanks for your input. i just read your reply and i am in a similar boat with my current love. we just decided that having a threesome would be fun and have talked about it for a while. it is nice to know that there are couples out there like us. :-)
Same problem here. I am sometimes curious/sexually attracted to men, married and my wife does not know. She would probably freak if I tell her about this. No clue about a solution.
Same problem here. I am sometimes curious/sexually attracted to men, married and my wife does not know. She would probably freak if I tell her about this. No clue about a solution.
Hi I am in the same boat really, in a long term relationship and have always wanted to try this. I find my self looking at and being turned on by my friends but unable to tell anyone. I do not want to jepordise my relationship in anyway so have resorted to looking at this site.
Hi I am in the same boat really, in a long term relationship and have always wanted to try this. I find my self looking at and being turned on by my friends but unable to tell anyone. I do not want to jepordise my relationship in anyway so have resorted to looking at this site.
Hi everyone! I haven't checked in for a while....been busy busy busy! Thank you all for your thoughts and advice, and letting me know I'm not alone! I have yet to act on my feelings or talk to my hubby about it. All in due time, I suppose. Life takes over sometimes. I'm still keeping an eye out though! lol Wish I had a gold membership so I could email you!! That's frustrating!
Hi everyone! I haven't checked in for a while....been busy busy busy! Thank you all for your thoughts and advice, and letting me know I'm not alone! I have yet to act on my feelings or talk to my hubby about it. All in due time, I suppose. Life takes over sometimes. I'm still keeping an eye out though! lol Wish I had a gold membership so I could email you!! That's frustrating!
Hey Johnathon 54 I have to say I totally agree with you I to believe that life is to short and that its is important to experiece the most you can. I have alot of different fantasys that I would like fullfilled but I also worry about Stds. I have had a desire for years to explore different things one of the being having sex with 2 men that for me is a big turn on.
Hey Johnathon 54 I have to say I totally agree with you I to believe that life is to short and that its is important to experiece the most you can. I have alot of different fantasys that I would like fullfilled but I also worry about Stds. I have had a desire for years to explore different things one of the being having sex with 2 men that for me is a big turn on.
I know how you feel. I told my bf that I am bi and would love to experiment with women and he said that he doesn't want to share. He doesn't understand. I just want to full fill my fantasy of being with a women. It isn't like I don't love him, but this is something that I want. I sometimes wonder if this is a bad thing to want too. But I try not to think about it. If it is somethilng you want go for it. Don't regret it. I hope to one day live out my fantasy. Hope all goes well.
I know how you feel. I told my bf that I am bi and would love to experiment with women and he said that he doesn't want to share. He doesn't understand. I just want to full fill my fantasy of being with a women. It isn't like I don't love him, but this is something that I want. I sometimes wonder if this is a bad thing to want too. But I try not to think about it. If it is somethilng you want go for it. Don't regret it. I hope to one day live out my fantasy. Hope all goes well.
:-) If you were looking for a woman - I would send my application...friendly smile..But seriously, I like the way you think. Somehow, I was thinkind exacltly the same about STD's, public oppinion, etc...and in my heck of the woods - a woman who is looking for a woman is not O.K...Anyway - good luck and I hope you will have a story (or suggestion) to share with all of us (no need to know the names..:-) )about how was that what you were curious about.:-)
:-) If you were looking for a woman - I would send my application...friendly smile..But seriously, I like the way you think. Somehow, I was thinkind exacltly the same about STD's, public oppinion, etc...and in my heck of the woods - a woman who is looking for a woman is not O.K...Anyway - good luck and I hope you will have a story (or suggestion) to share with all of us (no need to know the names..:-) )about how was that what you were curious about.:-)
My husband and I have always had a very open and honest relationship since the begining. We have been together for 5 years and in that time we have had several threesomes with 2 different women. I have always been interested in women and dated a few before I met my husband. He didn't know about this until about a year after we were together. But once he found out he was very interested because he had, like most guys, always dreamed of being with two women. We were both a little concerned with each other being jealous, but we haven't really had that problem. We both know that we love each other and no amount of physical pleasure with another person can change the love we have. We are currently looking for a female or a couple that would like to share in the physical pleasure with us. He is not interested in being with a male, but wouldn't mind if I was. We both just know that we want each other to have all the pleasure they can. I hope this helps. It's important to be open and honest with you significant other, because you never know what they might be thinking too.
My husband and I have always had a very open and honest relationship since the begining. We have been together for 5 years and in that time we have had several threesomes with 2 different women. I have always been interested in women and dated a few before I met my husband. He didn't know about this until about a year after we were together. But once he found out he was very interested because he had, like most guys, always dreamed of being with two women. We were both a little concerned with each other being jealous, but we haven't really had that problem. We both know that we love each other and no amount of physical pleasure with another person can change the love we have. We are currently looking for a female or a couple that would like to share in the physical pleasure with us. He is not interested in being with a male, but wouldn't mind if I was. We both just know that we want each other to have all the pleasure they can. I hope this helps. It's important to be open and honest with you significant other, because you never know what they might be thinking too.
My husband found out I was chatting with women online and got extremely upset. He knows that I am extremely attracted to women physically and now we are seeking out a women to be with together.
My husband found out I was chatting with women online and got extremely upset. He knows that I am extremely attracted to women physically and now we are seeking out a women to be with together.
I am with you along with many.. we all just want to test the waters every now and again. I have yet to approach anyone to fullfill this fantasy and its hard to hide it from my husband. But it would be nice to feel what a woman feels like, its hard to have both worlds but damn we are all young only once so have fun
I am with you along with many.. we all just want to test the waters every now and again. I have yet to approach anyone to fullfill this fantasy and its hard to hide it from my husband. But it would be nice to feel what a woman feels like, its hard to have both worlds but damn we are all young only once so have fun
Hmmm ! ok, Ive read alot of stories And have always wondered if it's all real. I think it's ok to want to try anything you want . We only live once and should be able to experiment to be happy. i would love to try a new life style just to see if i would like it but in my area it is well frowned on by alot of people .If you love each other like you say you do , it shouldn't matter. A monogamous relationship can be boring but on the other hand many poeple are satisfied with it. STD'S are something to think about. Who knows if the next person is or isn't affected?? Thats my biggest thing when i think about what i want to try. I AM NOT GAY in any sense of the word. . i just dont want to go through life without knowing that i have really enjoyed it to the fullest (safely of course ). I hope for you and your significant other that an understanding can come between you both and just think of it as a way to spice up & add to your enjoyment through lifes journey.We were meant to be happy and loved by all. best wishes to both of you
Hmmm ! ok, Ive read alot of stories And have always wondered if it's all real. I think it's ok to want to try anything you want . We only live once and should be able to experiment to be happy. i would love to try a new life style just to see if i would like it but in my area it is well frowned on by alot of people .If you love each other like you say you do , it shouldn't matter. A monogamous relationship can be boring but on the other hand many poeple are satisfied with it. STD'S are something to think about. Who knows if the next person is or isn't affected?? Thats my biggest thing when i think about what i want to try. I AM NOT GAY in any sense of the word. . i just dont want to go through life without knowing that i have really enjoyed it to the fullest (safely of course ). I hope for you and your significant other that an understanding can come between you both and just think of it as a way to spice up & add to your enjoyment through lifes journey.We were meant to be happy and loved by all. best wishes to both of you
